"U-Hauling is a well-established thing in the sapphic community. But what do you call it when you drive 10 hours to see someone you've been talking to for a week, only to wake up to a scathing TikTok about all the things you've done wrong since getting there? This strange phenomenon may not have a name yet, but that's not stopping anyone from discoursing about it on TikTok."
"But after a few days, she got tired and wanted to see if Lex would make coffee for her instead. Since Tiff's love language is "acts of service," she's all about being cared for. But Lex didn't pick up the signals, and the coffee went unmade. This, for Tiff, was the first strike. The second and third strikes happened when Lex revealed herself to be a proud nerd with a penchant for Magic The Gathering."
A woman drove ten hours after a week of texting to host a romantic staycation. Early gestures included making coffee each morning, but expectations about reciprocal acts of service went unmet. One guest watched football and favored hobbies like Magic: The Gathering, which created friction. The host counted these lapses as strikes against the guest. The guest posted a rebuttal on the app about a viral TikTok being made about the encounter. The exchange ignited broader TikTok conversation about a growing sapphic dating phenomenon and mismatched expectations on early visits.
Read at Queerty
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