The article discusses a parent's mixed feelings about their child's decision to stay in college over the summer for a job, instead of returning home. The parent feels proud of their child's independence but struggles with insecurity about whether their child enjoys being away from home. The response reassures the parent that their child’s choice is not a rejection of home, but rather a sign of growth and exploration, underscoring the importance of a stable home life as a foundation for independence.
You're rightfully proud of your kids and their independence, but at what cost? Reframing this might help a lot.
Sometimes kids, especially in the college years, take for granted that home will always be there.
If home is always there, that frees them to explore the world, try their skills and make mistakes, knowing they have a soft place to land.
Try to congratulate yourself for raising kids who feel confident enough to adult.
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