This article explores the detrimental effects of parental pressure on children's success. It highlights that many parents unintentionally impose their expectations before birth, leading to increased anxiety. Research by Jennifer Breheny Wallace found that a significant majority of parents wish for a less stressful childhood for their children. The key message is to value children for their unique identities instead of their achievements. By fostering individual interests and paths, parents can mitigate the toxic effects of achievement culture and reduce pressure on their children.
When achievement becomes toxic is when we tangle up our entire sense of self and value with what our children accomplish. This can lead to immense pressure and anxiety.
Conveying to children they are valued for who they are, not what they achieve, significantly reduces the pressure they feel and allows them to thrive.
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