"Not telling your wife that you're making a big purchase, knowing it could upset her, will just upset her more. Who wants to spend the holidays arguing? Do the right thing and have a conversation with her about how much fun the kids had at your sister's and how you'd like to keep the good times going in your own backyard."
"I would even throw in the health benefits of having a trampoline and the financial benefit of having playdates at your house instead of at the local Skyzone or other popular trampoline parks. Also, make a safety plan in advance on how you'll watch the kids when they play and what rules you'll implement: one jumper at a time, no flips or somersaults."
A father considered buying a trampoline secretly for his children after they enjoyed one at a relative's house and feared his wife would object. The recommended approach is to speak with the wife first rather than surprising her, to avoid holiday conflict and damaged trust. Present practical arguments such as health benefits and cost savings from hosting playdates at home. Prepare a clear safety plan outlining supervision and rules (for example, one jumper at a time and no flips or somersaults). Open communication and agreed-upon safety measures are advised before making the purchase.
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