Ask Allison: Our sex life is gone after decades of raising children - I want to regain it but she isn't interested
Briefly

After many years of marriage, couples often face a decline in intimacy due to the demands of home and work. The recent newfound time together can create frustration when both partners find it difficult to initiate intimacy. One partner may suggest accepting a diminished level of intimacy. However, it is vital for couples to address these feelings and explore ways to reconnect. Intimacy does not have to decline with age; communication and effort can nurture and revive the relationship.
After 25 years of marriage and raising children, many couples experience a decline in intimacy due to busy schedules. Initiating intimacy can be challenging when the desire for closeness persists but feels difficult to express. It’s important to communicate openly about these changes rather than accepting them passively. Explore ways to re-establish connection, prioritize time for each other, and remember that intimacy can be nurtured and revived.
The assumption that intimacy should diminish in one's 50s can be limiting. Instead, couples can find ways to maintain or rekindle their intimate connection. This requires both partners to actively participate in creating space for vulnerability and love despite life's challenges. Open conversations about desires and expectations can help navigate these transitions.
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