"DEAR CAN'T FORGET: I understand why you feel the way you do. Your boyfriend (now husband) shouldn't have lied to you. However, you state that your marriage has been on an even keel since your baby was born. If you want a happier marriage, start talking about this with a licensed counselor and ask what it will take for you to regain your trust in your spouse. People who focus on looking backward instead of the path ahead have been known to trip themselves up."
"We moved in together pretty quickly, and I got pregnant. Three months later, I saw two texts on his phone from a female co-worker. The first message said, This is Brianne' and the second was work-related."
A woman discovered two texts from a female coworker on her partner's phone, noted one identifying the sender was deleted while a work-related message remained, and was lied to when she inquired about the number. The couple later changed jobs, married, and have had no further issues, but the woman remains unable to fully trust her husband. Advice recommends acknowledging the hurt, pursuing licensed counseling, and focusing on the future to restore trust. A second correspondent describes a five-year on-off relationship with a broken engagement, later stronger reconciliation, and challenges due to living two hours apart and limited time for counseling.
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