Harriette Cole: Don't you see the boyfriend's secret home as a huge red flag?
Briefly

The article discusses the dilemma of a woman whose boyfriend has not introduced her to his living situation after two months. The response suggests that revealing such personal information is vital for trust to develop, and the recipient advises caution in the relationship. Additionally, a situation is recounted involving a woman named Erica, who was referred for a job by a friend but is not performing well. The friend discovers that Erica does not welcome further assistance, which highlights the complexities of workplace relationships, especially among those who are personally connected.
If she sat him down and told him her concerns, I think the odds are low that he would open up with her and be honest.
I have one more thought, which is that the girlfriend should slow way down if he is hiding where he lives.
Erica did not appreciate it. She told me that my reference was the extent of the help that she needed from me.
Erica is rarely on time for work and even for important meetings.
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