A drop in a partner's libido may lead to assumptions about attraction, but it often stems from self-perception issues. Women especially can feel disconnected from their sexual selves after becoming mothers. Stress from childcare can further reduce libido. The wife’s admission about past partners may indicate her desire to reconnect with her erotic nature. Instead of focusing on the past, couples can foster intimacy by revisiting earlier relationship moments that ignited sexual attraction. Encouraging sexual confidence in oneself is crucial to rekindling desire and connection.
To experience desire for another person, you must feel sexually confident in yourself. Sexual confidence includes having a positive body image and perceiving yourself as a person who could attract others.
The presence of children can lead to a disruption of libido through lack of privacy, fatigue, worry and other factors, and it can also cause a woman to lose sight of the sexual person she once was.
Sometimes returning to situations where you shared such moments can serve as reminders and inspiration to help you return to intimacy.
It is very likely that your wife is finding it hard to summon sexual feelings generally because she does not feel like a sexual being herself.
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