In addressing the challenges of dating with a colostomy bag, GoAskAlex suggests utilizing proactive strategies to filter out unsupportive individuals. She emphasizes being upfront about your ostomy—whether through visible photos on dating apps or casual conversations. Engaging in low-pressure scenarios can help gauge partner compatibility. Moreover, using specialized lingerie designed for ostomates can enhance comfort during intimacy. Ultimately, it's about identifying partners who embrace you, not those who shy away from your body's needs.
"While my 'gut response' (pun intended) is to tell you that anyone who treats you like that isn't worth your time, I know from personal experience that it's not always that simple."
"I prevent as many negative experiences as I can before they happen by using the same methods I would with any other outdated world views."
"By including a photo where your ostomy is visible, you'll prevent those who get 'squicked out' by your body from even messaging you in the first place (good riddance!)."
"Additionally, I've found it helpful to wear lingerie designed for ostomates for use before and even during intercourse."
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