I think I've had moments where I wondered: what would it have been like if I had a kid? I guess I would say 80% of the time I feel glad I don't have kids, and I feel free and really good about it, and maybe 20% of the time I wonder what would it be like.
When I first met my now-wife in 2012, she told me she never wanted to be pregnant. We talked about adoption, not wanting to have a newborn and sleepless nights. I don't want to be a parent and would like to spend my time doing other things.