#self-oriented-perfectionism

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fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Self-Oriented Perfectionism Is Obsessed With Status

You'll find a plethora of articles on how it affects the individual subscriber, citing the effects of excessively high standards for oneself on one's long-term motivation, self-esteem, and passion for one's work. Those articles consistently relate this form of perfectionism back to oneself. The problem, however, is that the preoccupation with self continues with a further preoccupation with self. "How does this affect me?" is the perfectionist's seminal question.
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fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

The Black Hole of the Demanding Perfectionist

Other-oriented perfectionists demand unrealistic standards from others while self-oriented partners often assume responsibility for meeting those needs to sustain self-esteem.
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