"Friends pay attention to unspoken but deep feelings of their pals; they read signals and act appropriately If you're in the company of a friend, be there entirely; don't be distracted; give them your full attention. Friendships can be strong and yet vulnerable. Treat them with respect and tenderness. Remember what's important to you about this relationship. Prove it by being a sustaining and reliable friend."
"I'm getting a text. Let me just see who this is. Just give me a minute. (Universal and unavoidable translation: No, I'm not doing anything with anybody important, what's up?) Maybe I should have told you sooner, but I knew you'd overreact. (Universal and unavoidable translation: You are a narcissistic hysteric and need to be more securely put in your place.)"
Friends pay attention to unspoken but deep feelings and read signals to act appropriately. Presence and undivided attention are essential when spending time with a friend. Friendships can be strong yet remain vulnerable, requiring respect and tenderness. Sustaining reliability and remembering what matters about a relationship strengthen bonds. Certain dismissive remarks and behaviors can end friendships quickly; repeated or combined insults ensure permanent rupture. Examples of hurtful lines include dismissing a friend for interrupts, implying they overreact, elevating one’s own busyness above the friend, questioning mutual affection, belittling memories, insulting appearance, and exploiting generosity. Careful words and consistent actions preserve friendships.
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