My Husband Got Himself Pierced ... Down There. It's Better Than I Expected.

"We didn't jump right into the PA. He started with a frenum piercing. When we tried it, I was neutral on it. I could feel it, but it really didn't do much for me. After that, he still wanted to get the PA. I didn't have strong feelings about it because I felt the frenum was a bit of a letdown.I'm glad he got it done. I'm not sure if it was the PA and frenum, or just the PA, but it feels good."

"If our usual sessions were an eight, the piercings raised it to a nine. We're just starting to try some different jewelry, but so far, the ring with a captive bead is my favorite. I've enjoyed it to the point where we're talking about him sizing up the PA ring to the next size or if he'd like to add another piercing."

"I'm wondering whether you've tried taking the frenum piercing out for a round of sex. Seems like that'd help you narrow down whether the Prince Albert piercing is providing all the extra fun alone or if it's the combination."

"While some piercers are pretty averse to discussions of sexuality and arousal, plenty more are open to a matter-of-fact discussion about the mechanics of pleasure. You might consider asking the piercer whether they're comfortable trying to help you understand what you're enjoying, and whether adding another piercing is likely to enhance your experience. If you do inquire, make your initial request fairly reserved and keep the discussion more in line with the tone of this column than a piece of erotic writing."

A husband began with a frenum piercing before getting a Prince Albert piercing. The frenum piercing was noticeable but felt like it did not add much. Afterward, the Prince Albert piercing was still desired, and the experience ended up feeling good. The writer reports that regular sessions went from an eight to a nine after the piercings. They are now trying different jewelry, and a ring with a captive bead is currently the favorite. They are considering sizing up the Prince Albert ring or adding another piercing. The response suggests removing the frenum piercing temporarily to compare effects and asks whether a piercer can help explain how additional piercings might enhance pleasure.

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