As an avid solo traveler who's used to exploring destinations on my own terms, I had mixed feelings when my boyfriend's family invited me on a river cruise this summer. Of course, I was grateful to be invited and looked forward to the memories we'd make while sailing on the Danube. But after reading the itinerary - packed with eight destinations in seven days - I wondered how it would be possible to get an adequate feel for each location. I also worried about my ability to relinquish control in the planning process.
When I first received an invitation to my friend's wedding in Tulum, Mexico, I was excited and honored to be included. Then, as I read the RSVP instructions, it hit me: I wasn't offered a plus-one. Instead of being upset or offended, I remembered my friend had always wanted an intimate celebration. I also knew the bride and groom had likely considered that I didn't have a serious partner at the time, and that our mutual acquaintances from college would make easy tablemates at dinner.
Driven by a desire to connect with my heritage, I set out on a three-week journey to explore Japan on my own. Though I'm an avid solo traveler and did research about the country, its culture, and what I may expect as a first-time visitor, I still made plenty of mistakes. Here are several things I did wrong on my first trip to the Land of the Rising Sun - and what I'd do differently if I return.
I've visited 90 countries and seen a lot of beautiful places around the world. Wānaka, New Zealand, has an incredible natural landscape. I loved the architecture in Colonia del Sacramento, Uruguay.
I typically enjoy spending a transatlantic flight watching a couple of movies, listening to music, and catching some sleep (if I'm lucky). This trip was different from the moment I sat down. Instead of keeping to myself, I became engrossed in conversation with my seatmate, Anne, a 95-year-old woman returning from a three-month stay in Paris. I was immediately captivated by her positive energy, boundless curiosity, and enthusiasm for life.
In recent years, the rise of solo travel among Americans has been stark. Whether that's a shift into digital nomadism and heading overseas for a better work-life balance, or simply joining a small group trip around Europe, there has been a marked increase in solo travel of late. While there are various reasons behind this trend, it seems like it's here to stay.
After I found out I was pregnant with our first, I had a different idea for what I wanted my babymoon to look like . I knew becoming a mother would require some lifestyle sacrifices, and that might include fewer solo trips, at least in the beginning. So, during my second trimester, I decided to take a solo babymoon to Grindelwald in the Jungfrau Region of Switzerland, which is known for its stunning natural beauty, scenic alpine hikes, and endless outdoor activities.
Organization is key when living in a small space. Everything item I own has a designated place. I've learned I must put everything back where it belongs; otherwise, things easily get lost.
I've lived abroad since 2018, traveling solo through 10 countries with an overstuffed backpack and a duffel bag of prized possessions.
When my younger sister took her first solo trip, I shared essential travel packing tips, emphasizing the importance of lightweight luggage for a more enjoyable experience.