Harriette Cole: I'm feeling uneasy about what I did to help my friend
Briefly

A friend lent money to another in need but now feels uncertain about repayment and the potential strain on their relationship. While it's understandable to worry about support, the article emphasizes the importance of having a clear repayment plan. It suggests that without such a plan, acceptance of the situation may be necessary, and even considering the loan as a gift could alleviate financial pressure. The advice encourages the lender to communicate openly, while also recognizing the emotional challenges involved.
It's unrealistic to expect your money back soon. Yes, you should have established a payment plan before, but here you are.
You need to be OK with that. You chose to lend her the money without making a plan. It might even be best to consider the loan a gift to her and a lesson learned for you.
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