The Psychological Harm of Complaining
Briefly

Recalling experiences involves a complex interaction between memory and emotional states, leading to alterations in how memories are perceived over time. Complaints often center around negative aspects of past events, and research indicates that our tendency to complain can impact the remembering process. Instead of functioning like a storage facility, human memory is malleable, meaning the emotions experienced during recall can change the perception of the memory. For instance, a good mood can lead to a positive recollection, while sadness can make memories more negative.
The act of remembering a past experience is an active construction that merges memory with a person's current emotional state, altering the memory upon recall.
Involuntary memories occur more frequently than voluntary ones, indicating a strong link between our emotional states and the memories that resurface.
Read at Psychology Today
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