Dear Abby: Since she went no-contact, I tell people I don't have a child
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The article presents situations where individuals seek advice from "Dear Abby" regarding personal relationships and social interactions. One parent grapples with how to discuss their daughter’s estrangement from the family, advised to be direct yet brief about their situation. Another reader struggles with discomfort in their boyfriend's bed and couch, prompted to communicate about their needs tactfully. Lastly, an elderly person advocates for practical gifts over flowers, highlighting a preference for meaningful contributions over temporary items.
"As a matter of fact, I can. Tell the questioner, I have one daughter. We are estranged, and I don't wish to discuss it further. Period."
"Start by telling your boyfriend that you can't get a good night's sleep in his bed because the mattress is uncomfortable for you. Do the same thing after watching TV on his couch."
"A gift certificate for a meal from a restaurant or a donation to feed the hungry would be far more appreciated than bouquets of expensive flowers that wilt."
"I have found this response leads to more uncomfortable questions. I am embarrassed to have to tell people Yes, but she does not speak to us and worse, try to answer Why?"
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