One Day My Kids Will Have to Learn About Our Family Scandal. I'm Afraid It'll Teach Them the Wrong Lesson.
Briefly

The article addresses a reader's concern about discussing a family member's false sexual assault accusation with their children. It highlights the importance of telling the truth about the rarity of false allegations while reinforcing that most claims of assault are legitimate. The advice stresses the need to continue believing victims and to approach such discussions with patience and an openness to questions, recognizing that this is a complex issue, even for adults to grasp.
When the time comes that you can no longer keep this story from your children, you'll need to simply tell them the truth: While the vast majority of sexual assault allegations are true, in rare instances, there are false ones, and there have been times in which innocent people have been harmed as a result.
Emphasize the fact that this happens relatively rarely and that for that reason, we have to continue to take people seriously when they say they've been harmed.
This is a difficult and complex reality for even adults to comprehend, so be patient with your kids and be prepared for a lot of questions.
Read at Slate Magazine
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