The article reflects on Robbie Williams' journey to fame, driven by a longing for his father’s approval after being abandoned. It explores the complexities of parenting and its impact on children’s lives, emphasizing that individuals often seek validation through their choices, mirroring or rebelling against parental figures. The author discusses the challenges of parenthood, the balance between self-regulation and self-esteem, and the inevitable parenting styles that evolve across generations. Ultimately, it suggests that every parent does their best within their limitations, highlighting the intricacies of familial bonds and personal identity.
In my workshops and in my books I say, "We become what we love and we become what we hate and both are inauthentic." This reflects the profound influence of our parents on our identity.
Parenting is the most difficult job in the world. It is difficult because parents are trying to instill mutually exclusive characteristics: self-regulation and self-esteem.
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