Mother's Day serves as a reminder of the myriad roles mothers play, emphasizing the continual adaptation they undergo throughout their children's lives. Child psychologist Edna Furman's concept of mothers being 'there to be left' captures the essence of motherhood; mothers dedicate themselves to nurturing their children, only to prepare them for independence. Through various life stages, especially during tumultuous teenage years, mothers must navigate emotional fluctuations, providing support while balancing their own needs with those of their children. This reflects the paradox at the heart of motherhood: fostering independence while coping with the emotional complexities involved.
"Our job as a mother is to continually adapt to our child according to his or her changing needs... ultimately, we do all of this so that we can be left."
"Mom is expected to adjust to these ebbs and flows calmly and effortlessly... balancing her own needs with those of her child."
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