Help! I'm Making a Big Change in My Love Life. Being Honest About My Past Could Sabotage It.
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Help! I'm Making a Big Change in My Love Life. Being Honest About My Past Could Sabotage It.
"A person who is really into you will be inclined to accept almost anything you tell them. Love makes people believe preposterous things like 'The reason we haven't ever met each other is that my phone camera has been broken for seven years.'"
"If you are honest and transparent, the right partner for you will absolutely believe the entirely reasonable statement, 'I used to be into women but now I'm into men.'"
A person in a long-term lesbian relationship is now interested in dating men and seeks advice on discussing their past. Transparency is emphasized as essential for establishing trust with new partners. The belief that a partner will accept one's truth is reinforced, suggesting that if someone cannot accept this honesty, they may not be the right match. The importance of being open about changes in attraction is highlighted as a key factor in forming new relationships.
Read at Slate Magazine
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