If You Want a Second Date, Avoid These Things on the First

"First dates involve everything from wardrobe selection, venue research, and etiquette expectations, including traditional scripts such as who pays the bill.[i] True, you might have a second chance to make a first impression-in certain areas. Unfortunately, romantic suitability is usually not one of them. Unattractive qualities displayed through first date bad behavior disrupts bonding during a critical phase of preliminary relationship building. Here is how to avoid them."

"Don't Sabotage Beauty With Bad Behavior A modern first date is not a blind date, as it does not involve laying eyes on a prospective partner. That is what the Internet is for. But in a setting where both parties expect the best behavior, actions speak louder than words. Make sure yours are appropriate, endearing, and attractive. Arrive on Time."

First dates require careful attention to wardrobe, venue, and etiquette to preserve opportunities for romantic connection. Unattractive behavior on an initial meeting disrupts bonding and undermines suitability despite chances to correct other impressions. A modern first date usually allows visual familiarity beforehand, so actions during the meeting carry more weight than discovery. Prioritize punctuality by factoring in travel and arriving early as a sign of respect. Wear clothing that matches the occasion and tone down provocative or overly casual styles. Maintain appropriate physical distance, avoid overly risqué topics or gestures, and keep conversation comfortable and endearing.

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