Terry Real's approach to couples therapy emphasizes emotional responsibility over blame. He argues that when one partner opts to take ownership of their actions, it creates space for healing and strengthens the connection. Real suggests that relationships should move from a mindset of adversaries to allies to foster intimacy. His mantra, "Who's right? Who's wrong? Who cares?", encourages couples to focus on collaborative understanding rather than winning arguments, emphasizing emotional safety as a cornerstone of intimacy.
Real emphasizes that shifting from blame to emotional responsibility is key in deepening connections between couples. "When one partner takes ownership, it creates healing opportunities."
The mantra, "Who's right? Who's wrong? Who cares?" encapsulates Terry Real's approach to relationship conflicts, promoting collaboration over victory to foster intimacy.
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