Ok wow big first secret here-start with one font. To pair fonts you need to have made a starting decision and use that to guide the rest of your quest.
The most common reasons you are looking to pair fonts are a heading with some body text (or vice versa), or more of a 1:1 sort of pairing like the visual above where they both are kind of headings.
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