"For fathers, work and family aren't in tension. Earning more, progressing in a career: these things feel aligned with being a good parent. The mental load of work is experienced as being in service of the family, rather than in competition with it."
"Working from home allowed her to catch up on the job she felt she'd been neglecting - the one she'd been told, in ways both subtle and explicit, was her true responsibility."
Working from home can create contrasting expectations between parents. One partner may see it as an opportunity for personal time, while the other may feel pressured to fulfill household responsibilities. This asymmetry can lead to misunderstandings about roles and responsibilities. For fathers, work often aligns with parenting, while mothers may feel the burden of household duties intensifying. Recognizing these differences is crucial for maintaining harmony and ensuring both partners feel supported in their roles.
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