Ambivalence represents a state of conflicting beliefs or desires, often causing individuals to hide some truths from themselves. Moral perfectionists, who adhere strongly to their beliefs, often struggle to modify their behavior. They may internally deny conflicting values, creating a split between their perceived identity and unconscious desires. This denial can lead to persistent issues as unresolved conflicts resurface. Awareness of ambivalence is important for genuine change and can challenge the defensive nature inherent in moral perfectionism, allowing for a path toward greater self-understanding and flexibility in choices.
Ambivalence is the state of holding conflicting desires, intentions, or beliefs, with often one side being conscious and the other hidden from oneself.
Perfectionists often become defensive when confronted with the necessity to understand their moral decisions and the ambivalence that accompanies them.
Meaningful change requires momentarily discontinuing consideration of the morality of our choices, which can allow for new perspectives on behaviors.
Fear of ambivalence in perfectionists inhibits change as it reveals their primal urges and identity confusion, perpetuating unresolved internal conflicts.
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