The article discusses responses from Reddit about perceived red flags in relationships that some users don't agree with. Many highlighted that having a small group of friends or recent friendships shouldn't be seen negatively, as they can signify personal growth. Similarly, cutting ties with toxic family members is viewed as a positive boundary. Additionally, some believe that preferring casual first dates like coffee instead of extravagant dinners should not be seen as a red flag, as it allows for low-pressure interactions. Overall, the responses emphasize the need to redefine what constitutes a red flag.
"Having a small group of new friends. The No. 1 red flag I've been told I've had is not having a single lifelong friend... My new group of friends are wonderful human beings who I consider to be brothers to me. I fail to see how this is a red flag."
"No contact with family. It's much better than a relationship with a toxic family... lots of people have crappy families. Almost everyone I've known who has no contact with their family is the one who managed to break out of the unhealthy cycle they were born into."
"People not wanting a dinner date or something extravagant on the first date... a coffee date is a perfect way to gauge if the other person is remotely on your wavelength without investing a ton of time or energy."
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