The article addresses a reader's concern about his girlfriend's refusal to swallow during oral sex, which detracts from his experience. The response urges the reader to reflect on his communication style, suggesting that how he phrases his request may contribute to his girlfriend's discomfort. It emphasizes the importance of having constructive conversations about boundaries and preferences in intimacy, as well as recognizing the feelings of both partners in the dialogue.
It's worth considering whether you may be using a similar tone and phrasing with your girlfriend, and whether she may be having a similar response to your approach.
The paper cup detail is worth negotiating. If the two of you can have constructive conversations about this, where you each share your feelings.
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