Older women from the BuzzFeed Community reflect on crucial life mistakes they see younger people making, emphasizing that one should not fall in love with untapped potential in partners, but rather accept individuals as they are. They also stress the importance of financial responsibility, urging young adults to save and invest early. Furthermore, they advise caution regarding parenthood: if you’re uncertain about wanting children, it’s better to hold off. These insights reveal the importance of authenticity, financial literacy, and thoughtful life decisions.
Don't fall in love with potential. I think everyone should have a sign on their forehead that says 'as is,' so we remember to ask ourselves if we could be happy with this person just as they are now.
Don't be careless with money. In my 20s, I didn't have any financial obligations other than a car payment, car insurance, and a phone bill.
If you want a baby, have a baby. If you're unsure, want to save a relationship, find direction, please someone else, or feel it's expected of you, HOLD OFF ON THAT BABY.
Put money away every single paycheck, and don't touch it. Don't let anyone else have access to it.
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