If you feel like there are times when your emotions quickly escalate and spin out of control, it may also feel like there's nothing you can do about it. Perhaps others have told you that you are "overreacting" to situations that typically do not evoke such intense feelings. But being told by others to "calm down" feels dismissive to you, and it invalidates your strong emotions.
"If we problem-solve our children's issues, that's only good in the short-term," Helen Turner, a social worker, tells TODAY.com. "As they grow, they'll have to figure out how to be self-reliant."