fromwww.theguardian.com
12 hours agoWe all want big personal change at the push of a button but here is how to actually achieve it
If you put pressure on the process, it will collapse. This is not only true of potty training. Sex, relationships, learning, play, recovery these are processes that need to unfold in their own way and time, because under pressure they will warp, buckle and collapse. Understanding this is key to building a better life but it is much easier to know this cognitively than it is to actually live it. We might say, No pressure, but saying something does not make it so.
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