You remember what you want to remember. You make time for what you want to make time for. Do the work. Show up. And most importantly, for the love of God, don't embarrass me in public, Tillman said. My first acting coach was tough, ya'll, but all great mothers are. Mama, you were there for me when no one else was, Tillman continued. Your loving kindness stays with me, and this is for you.