I was super lonely in my 20s. Then I realized I was the problem.

"I could simply become a more outgoing, present friend."

"I knew the truth: I was being punished."

"My social isolation was mostly within my control."

"I found hobbies again."

In mid-20s, social connections faded as friends moved away or entered relationships, leading to feelings of isolation. The author reflects on the impact of a new job and a small family that amplified loneliness. Acknowledging that the issue was largely under personal control, the narrative shifts towards recognizing the possibility of becoming a more proactive friend. Rediscovering hobbies became a key step in combating feelings of disconnection and loneliness, emphasizing personal responsibility in fostering social connections.

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