#etiquette

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fromPortland Mercury
1 week ago

To The Doll at the Weed Shop Downtown

"Proper etiquette is essential in customer service, and retaining tips should be viewed with ethics and respect for paying consumers. The actions of service providers impact their reputation and future interactions with customers."
Portland
#hospitality
#social-norms
Pets
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: Was I rude not to scoot over when they asked me to?

Etiquette can be subjective; both parties may have acted within their rights regarding seating in a church.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Miss Manners: She contaminated the soup and then got petulant with me

Polite corrections can help change behavior without creating conflict.
#air-travel
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Miss Manners: My boyfriend berated me in the parking lot over how I exited the church

Church etiquette requires respecting others' wishes when exiting.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Miss Manners: I gave my neighbor treats and got a rude phone call in return

Thoughtfulness must consider others' needs, like health conditions, to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
#public-behavior
#cultural-sensitivity
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: Is there a polite way to satisfy my curiosity about the waitress?

Focus on ordering food instead of inquiring about a waitress's background.
fromWho What Wear
2 months ago
Relationships

The Mistakes AAPI Brides Say to Avoid on Their Wedding Days

Understanding cultural significance enhances wedding guest etiquette.
Learning about traditions fosters respect and thoughtful participation.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 weeks ago

Miss Manners: What's the rule about giving an ultimatum to a friend?

Establishing a time limit for responses can prevent awkwardness in ticket purchases, especially for limited events.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: Can I, as the host, abandon the rowdy drinkers?

As a host, you cannot properly leave your own party, even though Miss Manners understands both that it has become a bore for you and that the guests are unlikely to notice your absence.
Relationships
Relationships
fromslate.com
1 month ago

We Asked a Bride If She'd Received Our Gift. Her Response Was Outrageous.

People, particularly younger generations, often fail to acknowledge gifts, which raises questions about modern etiquette standards.
#parenting
#dining
Law
fromAbove the Law
1 month ago

Chewed Gum Under Courthouse Table Becomes Federal Case Because Of Course It Does - Above the Law

Courtroom incidents can be absurd, as an unexpected gum controversy highlights hygiene issues in legal settings.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: Is it gauche to give visitors a grand tour of my house?

Unless you live in a historic property, are throwing a housewarming party or are orienting a houseguest, tours smack of showing off.
Dining
Food & drink
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: These college students seem stunned when someone wants to get off the bus

Crowded bus etiquette requires stepping off to let others disembark, though few do, leading to confusion and blockage.
#social-skills
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

People Are Sharing The Worst Housguests They've Ever Had

Houseguests can sometimes overstep boundaries, leading to uncomfortable and awkward situations.
#friendship
#weddings
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago
Retirement

I love weddings, but I leave them early - even if I adore the couple. It's not so wrong, especially if you do it right.

fromBustle
2 months ago
Fashion & style

These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Wear White To Someone Else's Wedding

fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago
Retirement

I love weddings, but I leave them early - even if I adore the couple. It's not so wrong, especially if you do it right.

fromBustle
2 months ago
Fashion & style

These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Wear White To Someone Else's Wedding

NYC parents
fromNew York Post
5 months ago

'Brat' bride sets strict rule for kid-free wedding: 'This is extreme'

Kid-free weddings spark controversy, with some couples excluding parents entirely to maintain a specific atmosphere.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: I refuse to yield my Father's Day rights to my selfish son-in-law

You are tempting Miss Manners to guess why you don't get along with your daughter's family.
Parenting
#social-invitations
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: Can I put a sign in my bathroom for one particular guest?

It's best to ignore guest bathroom habits rather than address them directly to avoid discomfort.
fromCN Traveller
1 month ago

The golden rules of festivals

Festivals are fantastic opportunities for creating memories, but remember to balance personal documentation with respect for fellow attendees who also wish to enjoy the experience.
Food & drink
#gift-giving
#dinner-parties
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I open the office door and only then realize it's an unwanted visitor

"One can enforce a building rule rudely and one can enforce it politely, but you appear to be asking if the rule itself is rude."
Privacy professionals
Privacy professionals
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: How insistent can I be about the spelling of my child's name?

It's important to correct spelling of names gently to avoid confusion as children learn to spell.
Relatives should not use electronic door codes without explicit permission.
Morning greetings should be initiated by whoever notices the other first, regardless of gender.
fromNew York Post
2 months ago

Gen Z divided over influencer's phone etiquette: 'Very polite, but no one else does it'

Basic etiquette, especially in phone conversations, is seen as declining, particularly among younger generations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I want to tell these parents that their children are at risk

The prevailing rule of etiquette discourages people from giving unsolicited advice about others' parenting choices, even when concern arises about potential health risks for children.
Privacy professionals
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: We can't have a graduation party, and nobody's going to be happy

It is deemed ill-mannered to invite extended family to a graduation ceremony without offering accommodation or a celebration.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: Our school's teacher appreciation week is so tacky

School staff appreciation should be organized by parents, not mandated by the school.
Parents should not feel pressured to contribute funds or gifts for appreciation events.
History
fromMedievalists.net
2 months ago

How to Behave Like a Civilised Man: Hygiene and Manners from the Middle Ages - Medievalists.net

Medieval etiquette and hygiene were highly valued, contradicting the stereotype of widespread filth and crude manners.
#communication
fromNew York Post
2 months ago

'Disrespectful' friend ruins wedding by breaking this major social norm: 'So hillbilly'

Proposing at someone else's wedding can ignite debate on etiquette and respect for the couple's special day.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: The graduation invitation now sounds almost like a threat

Imagine a world in which it was wrong to decline any invitation: An acquaintance invites you to come over for a house-painting party. A rejected lover invites you on a trip. A teenager invites you to go skydiving. Just nuts, as you have already concluded.
Miscellaneous
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: What's the best way to dodge a fishy hug? And what if they chase me?

Maintain personal boundaries in social interactions to ensure comfort and safety.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: Am I petty to think my neighbors' parties are unfair to single people?

Etiquette is not in the business of making everything exactly fair. Unless things are overtly unfair, it is more polite not to notice.
Dining
NYC parents
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I'm embarrassed to be seen with the lollipop snatcher

Address embarrassing situations with humor and tact, as suggested by Miss Manners.
Emphasis on the importance of proper familial titles like 'mother' over casual alternatives.
Celebrating achievements should focus on sharing joy, not soliciting gifts.
Wearables
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: Was I rude to ask where they got the swell walker?

Asking about medical devices like walkers can border on intrusive, so consider your relationship to the person before inquiring.
fromBusiness Insider
3 months ago

Gen Z and boomers are both FaceTiming in public - but for different reasons

Public video calls have become a contentious social issue, raising questions of etiquette and consideration in shared spaces.
fromTasting Table
3 months ago

Avoid This Mistake When Using Starbucks' Mobile App - Tasting Table

When ordering from Starbucks, ensure you select the correct pickup location on the app to prevent confusion at the store or drive-thru.
Coffee
Pets
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago

The dos and don'ts of good petiquette: four cardinal rules for dog owners

Good dog walking etiquette includes cleaning up after your dog and understanding how others perceive your pet.
#relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: They wore white gowns to my wedding, and people were talking

Wearing white gowns at a wedding can harm familial relationships and indicates poor judgment.
Navigating pet inclusion during a trip requires clear communication and understanding in relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
5 months ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: Our houseguest was offended when I asked about the broken items

Addressing guest behavior is important for household harmony.
Gift-giving should feel sincere and thoughtful.
London politics
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

Queen Camilla's sister reportedly won't curtsy to her despite royal status: 'Finds it impossible'

Annabel Elliot, sister of Queen Camilla, struggles to curtsy to her sister despite royal customs.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

Dear Abby: I want my fat son-in-law to stop sitting in my chairs

It is important to approach sensitive topics about health and mobility with empathy and clear communication.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: I got in a cupholder argument with another concertgoer. Which of us was right?

"It's the one to your right, just as at the table."
Mental health
Mental health
fromstupidDOPE
3 months ago

Why Tipping Your Budtender Should Be a Part of Weed Etiquette | stupidDOPE

Tipping budtenders shows respect for their expertise and enhances the cannabis shopping experience.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: I'm baffled by this frequent question about my hair

Understanding social interactions can be complex—responding to unsolicited comments and greetings is often more nuanced than it seems.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: One of the guests made everybody walk out in the middle of my party

Miss Manners suggests that offering to arrange transportation for guests could have prevented the unfortunate departure, emphasizing that this rudeness is both rare and extreme.
Pets
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: Don't they realize it's rude to make a car chirp?

One can easily lock a car with a single button press, avoiding the loud chirp that startles others. This behavior may reflect a lack of concern for people around.
Privacy technologies
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: I have a game I play with strangers. Am I being rude?

Guessing personal details about strangers is often perceived as intrusive and could imply they don't belong.
fromTasting Table
4 months ago

11 Rude Behaviors To Avoid At A Whiskey Tasting, According To An Expert - Tasting Table

Whether you're a newcomer or a connoisseur, whiskey tastings provide a unique opportunity to expand your knowledge, meet enthusiasts, and enjoy rare selections.
Beer
fromBusiness Insider
4 months ago

I sent my 9-year-old son to an etiquette camp. It might sound old-fashioned, but it taught him confidence and kindness.

The etiquette camp helped my son, Wells, improve his manners and social interactions, turning him into a more confident individual without making him a miniature aristocrat.
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: It's not really a funeral. Is it OK for me to wear white?

Celebration of life events focus on honoring the deceased, but should not forbid expressions of grief.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: I fear I reacted inappropriately to the cigarette burn

The gentleman's passive reaction to the woman's accidental cigarette burn raises questions about appropriate responses to reckless behavior.
fromTasting Table
4 months ago

Serrated Vs Non-Serrated Knives: Which Should You Be Using For Steak? - Tasting Table

One way to think about which knife to use is to consider how you would carve a large piece of meat with a larger version of each knife.
Food & drink
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: I'm living in their house and I can't stand their jokes

Gratitude for free housing does not negate the need for respectful communication about personal boundaries.
fromwww.theboltonnews.co.uk
4 months ago

Brits outraged as simple supermarket act branded 'rude' and 'disgusting'

The user posed on Reddit, "People who graze at supermarkets. Why do you do it?" sparking a debate on whether this behavior is acceptable.
London food
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: My friends say I was wrong to confiscate the tip jar

It is considered rude to place a tip jar at private events, as it suggests the hired help is dissatisfied with their pay.
Pets
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: These people wander into our home and I'm supposed to be polite to them

It is polite to close a door for privacy by simply informing others before doing so.
Humor
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: Is my co-worker's public food' rule a real thing?

Communication misunderstandings can arise from invisible disabilities like hearing loss, and it's important to address judgments about someone's behavior in these contexts.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: Someone should teach Gen Z how to do a toast

Even though the use of "cheers" has become a noun and verb among younger generations, the traditional toast remains a valuable practice of celebration and etiquette.
Women
Cooking
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: The tourist accused my daughter of hitting her and wouldn't let it go

Handling misunderstandings and accusations with politeness and composure promotes credibility in social situations.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: What's the new greeting now that how do you do' is out?

The phrase 'How do you do?' has fallen out of favor and often confuses people; alternatives like 'Pleased to meet you' exist but carry their own issues.
US politics
fromwww.mediaite.com
5 months ago

Jen Psaki Claps Back After Trump Flack Steven Cheung Rips Her for What She Left Behind in White House

Jen Psaki defended her use of personalized stationery against criticism, emphasizing etiquette and focus on important national issues.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
5 months ago

Miss Manners: When it's your neighbor's kid ringing the doorbell

"Even if the causes are the best, Miss Manners will have to disagree about the wholesomeness of the values being inculcated. Teaching children to feel good about shaming and extorting their neighbors, with the justification that the funds are for a good cause, strikes her as bad policy."
Fundraising
fromwww.mercurynews.com
5 months ago

Miss Manners: The party guest implied I don't want to celebrate my marriage

When one is being toasted, one doesn't take a sip, as that's rather like tooting one's own horn.
Relationships
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