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fromThe Atlantic
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

Unburden Yourself of Secret Shame and Feel Happier

Guilty secrets, even if not criminal, can significantly harm well-being; healthier coping strategies are available for relief.
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago
Mental health

Is Guilt Inevitable?

Guilt evolved to maintain social connections and ensure group survival.
Without guilt, self-awareness and moral growth might struggle.
Healthy guilt can guide personal development rather than just cause pain.
fromPsychology Today
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

How Are Shame, Guilt, and Embarrassment Different?

Guilt, shame, and embarrassment are interconnected emotions that arise after perceived wrongdoing, but they differ significantly in their focus and intensity.
fromThe Atlantic
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

Unburden Yourself of Secret Shame and Feel Happier

Guilty secrets, even if not criminal, can significantly harm well-being; healthier coping strategies are available for relief.
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago
Mental health

Is Guilt Inevitable?

Guilt evolved to maintain social connections and ensure group survival.
Without guilt, self-awareness and moral growth might struggle.
Healthy guilt can guide personal development rather than just cause pain.
fromPsychology Today
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

How Are Shame, Guilt, and Embarrassment Different?

Guilt, shame, and embarrassment are interconnected emotions that arise after perceived wrongdoing, but they differ significantly in their focus and intensity.
more#psychology
#motherhood
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago
Parenting

I'm 41 and a mom to triplets. I did the math and would need 6 figures just to cover the day care fees.

Leila Green navigates the challenges of motherhood with triplets, battling guilt and anxiety while establishing strict routines for feeding and sleep.
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago
Parenting

Like many mothers, I struggled with breastfeeding. Now we know we're not failures' | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

Difficulties with breastfeeding are linked to negative mental health outcomes for mothers, a finding reinforced by recent research.
fromBuzzFeed
3 months ago
Writing

At 17, I Gave My Baby Up. I Never Expected The 2-Word Message My Child Would One Day Send Me.

The author reflects on the emotional complexities of moving on after placing a child for adoption.
The guilt of having another child years after adoption is a significant emotional challenge.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Parenting

Veteran Mom Gives Us The Reminder We Need About "Loving Every Minute"

It's acceptable for parents to dislike certain stages of parenthood without feeling guilty.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago
Writing

I'm 'wishing away' time with my toddler - I just don't want to deal with her

Parenting can be overwhelming, leading to guilt as parents wish for downtime instead of cherishing moments with their young children.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I'm 41 and a mom to triplets. I did the math and would need 6 figures just to cover the day care fees.

Leila Green navigates the challenges of motherhood with triplets, battling guilt and anxiety while establishing strict routines for feeding and sleep.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

Like many mothers, I struggled with breastfeeding. Now we know we're not failures' | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

Difficulties with breastfeeding are linked to negative mental health outcomes for mothers, a finding reinforced by recent research.
Writing
fromBuzzFeed
3 months ago

At 17, I Gave My Baby Up. I Never Expected The 2-Word Message My Child Would One Day Send Me.

The author reflects on the emotional complexities of moving on after placing a child for adoption.
The guilt of having another child years after adoption is a significant emotional challenge.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Parenting

Veteran Mom Gives Us The Reminder We Need About "Loving Every Minute"

It's acceptable for parents to dislike certain stages of parenthood without feeling guilty.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago
Writing

I'm 'wishing away' time with my toddler - I just don't want to deal with her

Parenting can be overwhelming, leading to guilt as parents wish for downtime instead of cherishing moments with their young children.
more#motherhood
#justice
fromNew York Post
8 months ago
New York City

Exclusive | Self-centered alleged drunk driver who killed 4 at LI nail salon speaks after harrowing crash: 'It's over for me'

The accused in a deadly nail salon crash, showing little remorse, admits guilt and struggles with alcoholism.
fromNew York Post
1 week ago
Black Lives Matter

Alabama inmate asks to be executed 10 years after conviction for vicious murder: 'An eye for an eye'

James Osgood, an Alabama death row inmate, seeks to move forward with his execution, admitting guilt and expressing remorse for his crime.
fromVulture
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Matlock Recap: Turnabout!

Matlock navigates a morally complex case reflecting on justice, guilt, and personal redemption with engaging storytelling and a surprising conclusion.
fromNew York Post
8 months ago
New York City

Exclusive | Self-centered alleged drunk driver who killed 4 at LI nail salon speaks after harrowing crash: 'It's over for me'

The accused in a deadly nail salon crash, showing little remorse, admits guilt and struggles with alcoholism.
fromNew York Post
1 week ago
Black Lives Matter

Alabama inmate asks to be executed 10 years after conviction for vicious murder: 'An eye for an eye'

James Osgood, an Alabama death row inmate, seeks to move forward with his execution, admitting guilt and expressing remorse for his crime.
fromVulture
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Matlock Recap: Turnabout!

Matlock navigates a morally complex case reflecting on justice, guilt, and personal redemption with engaging storytelling and a surprising conclusion.
more#justice
#shame
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Blaming Narcissist

Humans have a complex relationship with blame, often influenced by emotions of guilt and shame, shifting responsibility rather than confronting it.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Guilt, Shame, and Cooperation

Guilt fosters reconciliation, while shame shapes societal understanding and behavioral boundaries.
Both emotions are critical for group cooperation but can also be misused, leading to personal suffering.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago
Social justice

How to Get More Out of Shame

Shame can be a social force for moral good through reintegrative shaming, promoting reform without ostracizing individuals.
fromConsequence
7 months ago
Writing

Mining Metal: Best Underground Metal Albums of September 2024

Death metal's themes may seem negative, but they often serve as a means to process guilt and understand harm in a deeper way.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Blaming Narcissist

Humans have a complex relationship with blame, often influenced by emotions of guilt and shame, shifting responsibility rather than confronting it.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Guilt, Shame, and Cooperation

Guilt fosters reconciliation, while shame shapes societal understanding and behavioral boundaries.
Both emotions are critical for group cooperation but can also be misused, leading to personal suffering.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago
Social justice

How to Get More Out of Shame

Shame can be a social force for moral good through reintegrative shaming, promoting reform without ostracizing individuals.
fromConsequence
7 months ago
Writing

Mining Metal: Best Underground Metal Albums of September 2024

Death metal's themes may seem negative, but they often serve as a means to process guilt and understand harm in a deeper way.
more#shame
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

What Guilt is Really Trying to Tell You

Guilt can mask hope by creating an illusion of control over changing outcomes.
Powerlessness serves as a protective boundary, not a sign of failure.
Releasing guilt facilitates rest, which is essential for impactful future actions.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago
UK news

I didn't start out wanting to see kids': are porn algorithms feeding a generation of paedophiles or creating one?

Individuals caught with indecent images face profound guilt and shame, as revealed through their personal narratives.
#personal-growth
fromScary Mommy
3 months ago
Writing

My Only New Year's Resolution Is To Let Go Of The Guilt I Still Carry From My Divorce

The author grapples with guilt and regret over their divorce despite knowing it was the right choice for both parties.
fromPhilosophynow
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Guilt

Guilt plays a crucial role in developing a healthy personality by signaling when one fails to meet self-informed moral standards.
fromBusiness Insider
6 months ago
Writing

I cheated on my girlfriend. It's the worst thing I've ever done, but I had to lose her to find myself.

Infidelity can stem from a lack of communication in a relationship and can ultimately lead to personal growth.
fromIndependent
5 months ago
Digital life

Ask Allison: I cheated on my husband in the past whilst drunk - we've just had a baby and I feel so guilty. Should I confess?

Communicate openly with your partner; honesty fosters healing in relationships.
fromScary Mommy
3 months ago
Writing

My Only New Year's Resolution Is To Let Go Of The Guilt I Still Carry From My Divorce

The author grapples with guilt and regret over their divorce despite knowing it was the right choice for both parties.
fromPhilosophynow
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Guilt

Guilt plays a crucial role in developing a healthy personality by signaling when one fails to meet self-informed moral standards.
fromBusiness Insider
6 months ago
Writing

I cheated on my girlfriend. It's the worst thing I've ever done, but I had to lose her to find myself.

Infidelity can stem from a lack of communication in a relationship and can ultimately lead to personal growth.
fromIndependent
5 months ago
Digital life

Ask Allison: I cheated on my husband in the past whilst drunk - we've just had a baby and I feel so guilty. Should I confess?

Communicate openly with your partner; honesty fosters healing in relationships.
more#personal-growth
#personal-responsibility
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Relationships

Harriette Cole: I screwed up, and my friend lost all the money for her dream trip

Illness can have serious effects on friendships; give friends time to heal.
Offering to help with costs incurred from illness can be a way to mend relationships.
fromScary Mommy
11 months ago
Writing

I've Been Busy Taking Care Of Everyone Else & Now I Have 6 Friggin' Cavities

Neglecting personal care due to the demands of life can lead to guilt and shame, impacting overall health.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: I screwed up, and my friend lost all the money for her dream trip

Illness can have serious effects on friendships; give friends time to heal.
Offering to help with costs incurred from illness can be a way to mend relationships.
fromScary Mommy
11 months ago
Writing

I've Been Busy Taking Care Of Everyone Else & Now I Have 6 Friggin' Cavities

Neglecting personal care due to the demands of life can lead to guilt and shame, impacting overall health.
more#personal-responsibility
#relationships
Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
8 months ago

How do Ukrainians survive the traumatic guilt of war? For many, the answer is art | Charlotte Higgins

War is not only about blood and terror but also about complex emotions like guilt, which can manifest in various ways impacting individuals' lives and relationships.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Parenting

3 Reasons Why Both Spouses Feel Like the Bad Guy in a Divorce

Divorce is complex, with both partners often feeling guilty and justified in their perspectives.
Awareness of emotional realities can lead to a less turbulent separation.
fromPsychology Today
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Guilt After Betrayal

Guilt hinders recovery from intimate betrayal; recognizing its influence is crucial for healing.
fromNature
4 months ago
Writing

Loose ends

Miles grapples with guilt over past decisions as he attempts to reconnect with Marilyn during a critical moment.
Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
8 months ago

How do Ukrainians survive the traumatic guilt of war? For many, the answer is art | Charlotte Higgins

War is not only about blood and terror but also about complex emotions like guilt, which can manifest in various ways impacting individuals' lives and relationships.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Parenting

3 Reasons Why Both Spouses Feel Like the Bad Guy in a Divorce

Divorce is complex, with both partners often feeling guilty and justified in their perspectives.
Awareness of emotional realities can lead to a less turbulent separation.
fromPsychology Today
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Guilt After Betrayal

Guilt hinders recovery from intimate betrayal; recognizing its influence is crucial for healing.
fromNature
4 months ago
Writing

Loose ends

Miles grapples with guilt over past decisions as he attempts to reconnect with Marilyn during a critical moment.
more#relationships
#parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago
Parenting

'Hurried child syndrome':?Is it any wonder parents are shattered by the end of the day when there is a new trend to digest daily?

Overanalyzing parenting leads to stress and guilt from labels like 'helicopter parent' or 'almond mum.'
fromwww.mercurynews.com
9 months ago
Parenting

Too much screen time harms children, experts agree. So why do parents ignore them?

Parents face challenges with enforcing screen time limits and struggle with feelings of guilt over exceeding recommended durations.
fromScary Mommy
10 months ago
Parenting

I Learned To Cut Myself Some Slack, For My Kids' Sake

Parenting struggles can lead to a cycle of guilt and impatience, impacting relationships with children.
fromBusiness Insider
4 months ago
Writing

My mom had me and my brother in her 20s. When she wanted to have another kid in her 40s, we boycotted her idea.

Family dynamics can be challenging, especially with the introduction of new children in the mix.
Sibling solidarity often emerges in times of stress caused by younger relatives. That can manifest in humorous but also cruel ways.
Personal guilt can stem from family decisions about having more children or managing existing ones.
Parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'Hurried child syndrome':?Is it any wonder parents are shattered by the end of the day when there is a new trend to digest daily?

Overanalyzing parenting leads to stress and guilt from labels like 'helicopter parent' or 'almond mum.'
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
9 months ago

Too much screen time harms children, experts agree. So why do parents ignore them?

Parents face challenges with enforcing screen time limits and struggle with feelings of guilt over exceeding recommended durations.
fromScary Mommy
10 months ago
Parenting

I Learned To Cut Myself Some Slack, For My Kids' Sake

Parenting struggles can lead to a cycle of guilt and impatience, impacting relationships with children.
fromBusiness Insider
4 months ago
Writing

My mom had me and my brother in her 20s. When she wanted to have another kid in her 40s, we boycotted her idea.

Family dynamics can be challenging, especially with the introduction of new children in the mix.
Sibling solidarity often emerges in times of stress caused by younger relatives. That can manifest in humorous but also cruel ways.
Personal guilt can stem from family decisions about having more children or managing existing ones.
more#parenting
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Faith, Guilt, Morality, and Pregnancy Termination

Faith shapes beliefs, but personal values and real-life struggles challenge absolutes.
Guilt after termination can reflect love and care, not moral failure or condemnation.
Compassion allows for grief without self-punishment, transforming pain into meaning.
fromFast Company
2 months ago
Miscellaneous

4 signs your work is hurting your personal life

Work-life balance is often a myth; success in one area means failing in another.
Integration of work and personal life is key to maintaining balance.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago
Writing

Blackwater Lane review medieval mansion is the star in haunted house stalker thriller

The film's exquisite setting overshadows its predictable plot and lackluster performances.
fromwww.mediaite.com
3 months ago
Left-wing politics

Makes Him Look Very Guilty': Trump Tears Into Biden's Last Minute Family Pardons

Trump criticized Biden's pardons for his family, stating they create a perception of guilt.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
East Bay (California)

10 reasons we cling to stuff we don't need and how to stop

Letting go of items tied to guilt or memories can free up space and create a more organized home.
fromVulture
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

No Good Deed Recap: Dead Inside

Paul learns to express his emotions after believing Lydia killed Mikey, revealing deeper relationship issues.
Mikey's survival foreshadows unresolved family tensions and the absurdity of the Morgans' situation.
fromgizmodo.com
9 months ago
Gadgets

Interview With the Vampire's Season 2 Finale Goes Full Divorce Court

Louis's journey through guilt drives him to seek vengeance against those responsible for Claudia's death, resulting in a violent confrontation.
fromBuzzFeed
6 months ago
Writing

Pet Parents Are Sharing How Their Relationships With Their Animals Changed After Having A Baby

Having a baby can significantly alter a pet owner's relationship with their animals, often leading to feelings of guilt and neglect.
fromwww.theguardian.com
7 months ago
OMG science

Digested week: Tupperware has filed for bankruptcy. I hope you're happy, snowflakes

Pet ownership comes with immense responsibility and guilt, especially regarding their health needs.
#relationship-dynamics
fromScary Mommy
7 months ago
Writing

I Had A Sex Dream About My Best Friend's Husband

Dreams can evoke unexpected emotions, including guilt, especially when involving close relationships.
fromBuzzFeed
11 months ago
Relationships

15 Times When Scheduled Sex Either Ignited Passion Or Killed The Spark For Couples

Scheduled sex can intensify pressure and guilt, affecting the quality of intimacy in relationships.
fromScary Mommy
7 months ago
Writing

I Had A Sex Dream About My Best Friend's Husband

Dreams can evoke unexpected emotions, including guilt, especially when involving close relationships.
fromBuzzFeed
11 months ago
Relationships

15 Times When Scheduled Sex Either Ignited Passion Or Killed The Spark For Couples

Scheduled sex can intensify pressure and guilt, affecting the quality of intimacy in relationships.
more#relationship-dynamics
fromwww.npr.org
11 months ago
US news

COMIC: How to have a healthy relationship with guilt

Guilt can be painful but also a powerful tool for connection.
fromBuzzFeed
1 year ago
Writing

Men Who Couldn't Keep It In Their Pants Revealed How Their Relationships Changed For Better Or Worse

Cheating can have profound consequences on multiple lives, leading to guilt, regret, and a complicated emotional aftermath.
fromIrish Independent
10 months ago
New York City

'That's not justice' - Victim hits out at sentence as soldier (22) who viciously beat her avoids prison

Natasha O'Brien thought she was going to die during the attack
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