Your environment is branding your brain. Every conversation, every room, every feed is shaping what you think is possible. Hang around people who settle and you'll start to shrink without noticing.
"I feel like I'm living someone else's life." "Why do I always put others' needs ahead of mine?" "Social situations exhaust me." In my practice, I frequently hear statements like this, and they indicate that someone might be living a partially or fully performative life.