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Leslie Jamison and the Travails of Millennial Divorce

The dissolution of a marriage provides rich material for writers, blending elements of passion, regret, and storytelling into a coherent narrative. [ more ]

LGBTQ Nation

Actress Sophia Bush can't stop smiling after coming out as queer in a powerful essay

Actress Sophia Bush came out as queer at 41 after rumors with Ashlyn Harris. Explaining her pain, love for Harris, and navigating divorces, she emphasized the authenticity of their relationship. [ more ]

BuzzFeed

3 weeks ago

JavaScript

This Guy's 24-Year-Old Fiance Wants His Ex-Wife To Change Her Last Name, And It's Messy

Divorces may involve name changes and complexities regarding who retains the last name post-divorce. [ more ]

Psychology Today

Why Some People Eventually Flourish After a Marriage Ends

The majority of individuals over 50 who divorce tend to stay single.

Some post-divorce individuals find joy in their new single life, valuing friendships and independence. [ more ]

HuffPost

Gavin Rossdale Explains Why He Has 'Shame' Over Divorce From Gwen Stefani

Rossdale reflects on divorce and its impact on his kids

Expresses regret over divorce but believes in accepting life's unfoldment [ more ]

www.mercurynews.com

Ask Amy: My wife is calling me an adulterer, and I need to explain

Focus on supporting your son during divorce, refrain from justifying actions. Prioritize his emotions over yours. [ more ]

TODAY.com

3 days ago

Major League Baseball

Sophie Turner pushes back on divorce rumors; says she's a 'good mum' and not a 'partier'

Joe Jonas filed for divorce from Sophie Turner, citing an irretrievably broken marriage. [ more ]

moreparenting

www.theguardian.com

1 day ago

This is how we do it: We'll put on our sex playlist and change the lights to purple. It ignites a fire inside us'

Awakening to a fulfilling physical relationship post-divorce, leading to open communication and constant intimacy with a touch of discretion due to children. [ more ]

www.theguardian.com

I've joined the sisterhood of divorced women. We're happier set free

Realizing the positive outcomes and sisterhood that can come from divorce and finding happiness and independence after separation. [ more ]

Scary Mommy

This '90s Classic Proves That Sometimes Divorce Is Your Happy Ending

Divorce can be a challenging but transformative experience, leading to personal growth and new beginnings. [ more ]

Scary Mommy

Yup, I Was The Cliche Divorcee Who Dated A Younger Man

Taking time for self-growth after divorce is crucial before getting involved in new relationships. [ more ]

www.theguardian.com

An incredibly relatable' TikTok series captivated viewers. But its success was complex

Viewers relate to TikTok series on marriage and divorce, drawn by universal desires and storytelling. [ more ]

HuffPost

We Asked Divorced People To Share The Fight That Ended Their Marriage

Fights around therapy and money can be the last straw in marriages. [ more ]

Calm Sage - Your Guide to Mental and Emotional Well-being

Mental health

7 Practical Tips to Cope With Divorce Depression and Moving Forward

Marriage is a sacred relationship based on love, trust, and commitment; divorce can cause emotional turmoil.

Divorce depression, a form of clinical depression after a marriage ends, can persist if not addressed. [ more ]

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Lyz Lenz on 'This American Ex-Wife' and What to Do If You're Divorce-Curious

Fewer Americans are getting married, prompting the need for rethinking the institution of marriage.

Author Lyz Lenz advocates for a complete overhaul of marriage to allow for more freedom and equality in relationships. [ more ]

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Scary Mommy

Nicki Maher Is Just Here To Have A Good Time

Nicki Maher found TikTok success during a difficult time in her life, using the platform to navigate challenges and share humor.

She provides insights on parenting, divorce, working motherhood, and tips for Disney trips. [ more ]

Independent

Money is the biggest worry and cause of stress for divorced parents - so why is no one talking about it?

Single parents face financial struggles in dual-income society

Divorce brings financial challenges for parents [ more ]

Scary Mommy

My Entire World Changed Once I Realized I Didn't Need A Man To Take Care Of Me

Dreams of marriage and motherhood changed after divorce

Transition from dependence to independence as a single mother [ more ]

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HuffPost

Natalie Portman Finalizes Divorce After 11-Year Marriage With 'Black Swan' Choreographer

Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millepied divorce after 12 years of marriage.

Portman quietly filed for divorce in July and finalized proceedings last month in France. [ more ]

LGBTQ Nation

Divorced LGBTQ+ parents lead growing trend of "bird nesting" to give kids more stability

Bird nesting is an increasingly popular arrangement where children stay in one home while parents alternate.

Bird nesting is more popular among LGBTQ+ couples, likely due to their lesser likelihood of conforming to gender norms in co-parenting. [ more ]

Fatherly

8 Ways To Make The Transition To Co-Parenting As Smooth As Possible

Co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, but it is possible to have a successful co-parenting relationship.

Setting the right parameters and having open communication are key to building a strong co-parenting foundation. [ more ]

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Scary Mommy

I'm Divorced. Why Do I Find It So Hard To Call Myself A Single Mom?

The author reflects on her experience of being a single mother after separation.

The author initially struggled with embracing the term 'single mother' due to the perception of suffering associated with it. [ more ]

Slate Magazine

Help! My Sister Divorced Her Husband Without Warning. Now I'm the One Who's Heartbroken.

The letter writer's sister recently divorced and the letter writer is struggling to navigate their relationship with both their sister and the ex-brother-in-law.

The letter writer is finding it hard to adjust to their sister dating someone new and is seeking guidance on how to move forward and support their sister.

The letter writer is mourning the loss of the previous family dynamic and is conflicted about their own actions in maintaining a friendship with the ex-brother-in-law. [ more ]

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The New Yorker

4 months ago

The Birth of My Daughter, the Death of My Marriage

The author feels the desire to explore the world with her baby

The author reflects on her experience as a child of divorce [ more ]

TODAY.com

A divorced parents' guide to surviving Thanksgiving without your kids

Divorce can make Thanksgiving a difficult time for parents without their children.

Embrace change and avoid comparing your holiday to media images of Thanksgiving.

Create your own traditions and celebrate Thanksgiving with your children whenever you want. [ more ]

HuffPost

After Discovering Evidence Of Cheating, I Spent A Week At 'Sex Monster Camp.' It Changed My Life.

A woman discovers evidence of her husband's infidelity and files for divorce.

She keeps the details a secret for three months to protect her marriage and avoid gossip. [ more ]

Washingtonian - The website that Washington lives by.

Divorce Rates Are Rising Just for This Age Group

Baby boomers are divorcing more than any other generation.

The rate of divorce among adults ages 65 and older has tripled in recent years. [ more ]

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www.nytimes.com

First My Husband Left, Then My Stuff

The author reflects on the significance of giving her wedding shoes to her daughter three years after her divorce.

The author's act of emptying a storage locker becomes a symbol of moving forward and letting go of the weight of her past.

The author's experience highlights the emotional journey of healing and finding a lighter life after a divorce. [ more ]

co-parenting

Scary Mommy

Stressing TF Out Over Co-Parenting? Experts Unpack Top Anxieties

Co-parenting is a crucial aspect of divorce, especially when it comes to the mental health of children.

Negative perceptions of the other parent can disrupt effective co-parenting dynamics and negatively impact children's social-emotional adjustment.

Common fears of co-parents include failure, kids getting hurt, missing out on milestones, being replaced, and financial concerns. [ more ]

The Gottman Institute

Co-Parenting During the Holidays

The holiday season can be challenging for divorced parents who are co-parenting

Prioritizing the child's best interests and creating new traditions is important

Being flexible and mindful of loyalty conflicts can alleviate stress during the holidays. [ more ]

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www.mercurynews.com

5 days ago

Cars

Dear Abby: His wife thinks no one knows what she has been doing

Supporting a loved one in an unhealthy marriage, suggest exploring legal options and custody for the children. [ more ]

www.mercurynews.com

3 days ago

Coffee

Poison coffee: Suspicious husband used pool-test strips to nab wife

A woman in Arizona accused of attempting to kill her husband by poisoning his coffee received three years probation. [ more ]

ABC7 San Francisco

2 days ago

Major League Baseball

Sophie Turner opens up about divorce from Joe Jonas in new interview

Sophie Turner opens up about divorce from Joe Jonas and finding happiness. [ more ]

Above the Law

Law

Lawyer Screw Up Leads To Couple's Divorce. Judge Refuses To Fix It.

A mistaken divorce granted in 21 minutes due to online portal error raises concerns about legal repercussions and finality of decisions. [ more ]

Gay City News

Law

New York court decades marriage law applies retroactively in lesbian divorce case

New York's Marriage Equality Law (MEL) should be applied retroactively to a lesbian couple's 2005 religious marriage ceremony.

The New York Appellate Division ruled that assets acquired between 2005 and 2011 should be considered marital property for purposes of equitable distribution in a divorce.

The issue of retroactive application of same-sex marriage laws is still being debated in many states. [ more ]

Above the Law

Law

And It Says Right Here You Can't Try To Kill Your Former Husband With An Axe And Expect Money From Him

A husband in Massachusetts does not have to make continued payments to his ex-wife after she tried to kill him.

The court ruled that the ex-wife's violent conduct breached the implied covenant of good faith and fair dealing in the separation agreement. [ more ]

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Chelsea

Former Chelsea midfielder files for divorce after finding out kids are not his

Geremi discovered his wife's children were fathered by her ex-partner through DNA testing.

The revelation of the children's true paternity caused psychological damage and led to Geremi filing for divorce. [ more ]

HuffPost

'Brick' Singer Ben Folds Gets Divorced For Fifth Time: Report

Ben Folds has divorced for the fifth time, ending his marriage with Emma Sandall.

Folds was ordered to pay Sandall $650,000 in monthly installments and other monetary amounts, as per documents obtained by People. [ more ]

HuffPost

At 62, I Hadn't Been On A Date In Decades. Here's What Happened When I Tried The Apps.

Dating world has shifted online, requiring new skills like swiping.

Popular dating apps like Bumble give women control over who contacts them.

Creating a genuine and honest profile is essential in online dating. [ more ]

HuffPost

Gisele Bundchen Gets Visibly Emotional Talking About Split From Tom Brady

Gisele Bündchen reflects on divorce from Tom Brady in emotional interview on Hulu's 'IMPACT x Nightline'.

Despite the challenges, Bündchen expresses gratitude for the lessons learned and the new chapter in her life. [ more ]

HuffPost

Jodie Turner-Smith Addresses Joshua Jackson Divorce For The First Time

Turner-Smith reflects on divorce with mindfulness and prioritizing health and family.

Choosing what's healthiest and being true to oneself is crucial for personal well-being and family harmony. [ more ]

www.independent.co.uk

France news

Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millepied divorce after 11 years of marriage

Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millepied divorce after 11 years and two kids.

Portman filed for divorce from Millepied eight months ago. [ more ]

Harvard Gazette

Books

Can you embrace deep joy amid rending loss? - Harvard Gazette

Leslie Jamison writes about the simultaneous intense joy and sorrow in her life, aiming for a relatable account.

Her work tackles tough personal topics like sobriety and thresholds of transformation. [ more ]

LGBTQ Nation

Books

Seamus Kirst's children's book about gay dads divorcing takes representation to a new level

Children of LGBTQ+ parents deserve more than just picture books affirming their families.

Queer families face everyday challenges that are not related to their parents' genders.

Representation in children's books is crucial for all children to see themselves and their families.

Once Upon My Dads' Divorce focuses on a young boy named Grayson navigating his parents' divorce and the everyday challenges that come with it. [ more ]

www.nytimes.com

New York City

What Scandal? A Chef of L.A.'s Horses Opens Frog Club in New York.

The opening of Frog Club, a new restaurant in Greenwich Village, has been shrouded in secrecy.

The restaurant is the first venture for chef Liz Johnson since her highly publicized divorce from Will Aghajanian. [ more ]

Consequence

Music

Paloma Faith on Her Record Label Turning Her Sadness Into Entertainment: "It Was Like a Steak Through the Heart"

Paloma Faith discusses her new album 'The Glorification of Sadness,' inspired by her divorce.

She shares emotional stories behind the songs, including highly personal experiences like the label's reaction to her pain. [ more ]

Slate Magazine

In Defense of Divorce

Divorce can have upsides such as enjoying quiet and space

Lyz Lenz's memoir explores the oppression of women through marriage and calls for change [ more ]

time.com

In My Marriage Money Was a Trap. After My Divorce It Was My Freedom

Managing finances after divorce can be challenging, especially if one spouse is left with debt and no assets.

Learning about personal finance and budgeting is crucial to financial stability after divorce. [ more ]

slate.com

Help! I Want to Give My Ex Babies. It's the Least I Could Do.

The letter writer wants to convince her ex-husband to have children with her, even though they are divorced and he struggled to find someone during their open marriage.

The letter writer acknowledges that her plan may come across as manipulative and that she is still involved in the polyamory lifestyle. [ more ]

Scary Mommy

Is The "Milestone Divorce" Phenomenon Really A Thing?

Major life changes can serve as catalysts for seeking divorce.

Transitions and milestones can cause shifts in priorities and perspectives. [ more ]

Scary Mommy

What Not To Say To Your Newly Divorced Friend

Assumptions about family and relationships, comments about intact marriages and families, and comments that make the person feel alienated and alone are hurtful to someone going through a divorce.

Using the phrase 'single parenting' when a spouse is temporarily away is offensive to divorced individuals who face ongoing challenges without a partner. [ more ]

www.theguardian.com

4 months ago

Post-divorce, I'm isolating myself at home alone. How do I get out of this funk? | Leading questions

The end of a long-term marriage and the isolation of the pandemic have contributed to feeling more isolated and stuck in a routine.

One strategy for change is to let things disappoint you and to seek out new experiences, even if they might suck at first. [ more ]

BuzzFeed

42 Divorced People Are Sharing The Lessons Their Separation Taught Them, And It's Very Vulnerable

Friends may choose sides in a divorce, even without being asked to

Couples therapy only works if both partners are willing to take accountability and make an effort to change [ more ]

www.nytimes.com

Opinion | What Relationships Would You Want, if You Believed They Were Possible?

Around 40% of people who marry eventually get divorced

One-third of Americans believe their ideal relationship would involve something other than strict monogamy [ more ]

www.nytimes.com

6 months ago

I'm Estranged From My Best Friend but Still Invited to Her Family Holidays. Help!

The friendship has soured due to issues related to the friend's internet dating experiences.

The narrator has been excluded from family holidays due to the strained friendship.

The friend may be going through a rough time beyond just the strained friendship. [ more ]

HuffPost

9 months ago

I Help People Get Divorced. I'm Begging You - Don't Ignore These Red Flags Before Marrying.

High-conflict spouses can be vengeful and seek to destroy their partners after a divorce.

The family court system often allows narcissistic types to continue their vindictive behavior. [ more ]

www.theguardian.com

Mental health

Antidepressant use higher for women around breakups than men study

Women are more likely to use antidepressants following a relationship breakup than men later in life.

Antidepressant use increases for both men and women in the six months leading up to divorce. [ more ]

www.independent.co.uk

UK news

SNP leader shares state of breakdown' struggles over his divorce

Humza Yousaf, SNP leader, opened up about his mental health struggles during his divorce and how seeking professional help was the best thing he ever did.

Yousaf felt a stigma around men talking about their mental health struggles and feared it would impact his career if he opened up to colleagues. [ more ]

www.independent.co.uk

UK news

The extraordinary history of Sarah Ferguson and Prince Andrew's relationship

Sarah Ferguson's ex-husband Prince Andrew has been providing support as she recovers from skin cancer.

Despite their divorce, the couple still share a lasting bond and have supported each other through scandals and health issues. [ more ]

Los Angeles Times

LA Dodgers

Opinion: Is Steve Garvey, or his California campaign, for real?

Steve Garvey's ex-wife, Cyndy, revealed that Garvey had fathered two children with two women while engaged to a third.

Garvey, a Republican who voted twice for Trump, lacked substantive contributions during a debate among Democratic candidates for the California U.S. Senate seat. [ more ]

Miami Herald

Miami

Miami Dolphins WR Tyreek Hill files for divorce in Broward County

Miami Dolphins wide receiver Tyreek Hill has filed for divorce in Broward County.

Hill just completed his second season in Miami, leading the NFL with 1,799 yards. [ more ]

Tiny Buddha

4 months ago

Sometimes People Don't Say Sorry-Why It Pays to Forgive Nonetheless

The author had romanticized ideas about their father's absence, but the reality was disappointing.

The author's father chose to have no involvement in their life after the divorce. [ more ]

www.mediaite.com

NYC politics

Man Finds Out His Wife is Hooking Up With Bill DeBlasio When NY Post Calls Him For Comment

Owen Stark was caught off-guard when he found out his wife, Kristy Stark, was dating former Mayor Bill de Blasio, who is listed as an expert and advisor for her education company.

Kristy Stark claims that she and Owen are separated and getting a divorce, but Owen says he hasn't seen any legal communication regarding this. [ more ]

www.nytimes.com

Never Rely on a Man's Money

Discovering financial betrayal can lead to the end of a marriage and a resolve to be financially independent.

The fear of financial insecurity can be overwhelming during a divorce, especially for the person who has relied on their partner for financial support. [ more ]

Entrepreneur

4 Ways Intuitive Healing Can Save Your Life - And How to Get Started | Entrepreneur

Learning to use your intuition can help speed up the healing process from divorce or any trauma.

Intuition is the ability to sense something we may not be consciously aware of and can be learned by tuning into cues from the mind, body, and spirit. [ more ]

TODAY.com

Ruby on Rails

Ruby Franke's husband files for divorce

Kevin Franke, husband of former family vlogger Ruby Franke, has filed for divorce.

Ruby Franke and her business partner, Jodi Hildebrandt, were arrested and charged with felony child abuse.

The Frankes rose to prominence through their YouTube channel, 8 Passengers, but their strict parenting style had caused controversy before. [ more ]

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