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#birth-order
fromIndependent
23 hours ago
Parenting

Luke O'Neill: What your birth order says about your health... and wealth

Birth order may influence personality traits and sibling dynamics, as supported by recent scientific studies.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Parenting

I'm the oldest of four and the thing nobody tells you about being first is that you become the practice child - every mistake your parents make, they make on you, and by the time they get to your youngest sibling they're a different couple entirely. And you watched that happen in real time. - Silicon Canals

Firstborn children often serve as their parents' learning ground, experiencing stricter parenting and less understanding than younger siblings who benefit from their parents' accumulated experience and evolved perspectives.
Parenting
fromIndependent
23 hours ago

Luke O'Neill: What your birth order says about your health... and wealth

Birth order may influence personality traits and sibling dynamics, as supported by recent scientific studies.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm the oldest of four and the thing nobody tells you about being first is that you become the practice child - every mistake your parents make, they make on you, and by the time they get to your youngest sibling they're a different couple entirely. And you watched that happen in real time. - Silicon Canals

Firstborn children often serve as their parents' learning ground, experiencing stricter parenting and less understanding than younger siblings who benefit from their parents' accumulated experience and evolved perspectives.
Medicine
fromIndependent
1 day ago

Parents suing HSE alleging medical negligence of daughter must undergo genetic testing

Genetic testing is required for a family suing the HSE for alleged medical negligence regarding their daughter's treatment after birth.
#divorce
fromIndependent
3 days ago
Relationships

The Divorce Diaries: 'I was terrified he'd kill me, but I stayed because I wanted to have a baby'

fromIndependent
1 month ago
Relationships

The Divorce Diaries: 'My kids told me, 'You should have done it years ago' - and they were right'

Relationships
fromIndependent
3 days ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I was terrified he'd kill me, but I stayed because I wanted to have a baby'

A woman in her mid-50s shares her experience of marriage, domestic violence, and the pressure to have children.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I realised this relationship is draining the life out of me'

A woman in her mid-40s shares her experiences of marriage and divorce, reflecting on her early relationship and family life.
fromIndependent
1 month ago
Relationships

The Divorce Diaries: 'My kids told me, 'You should have done it years ago' - and they were right'

Education
fromIndependent
6 days ago

'It took a year just to nail down a basic structure' - parents tell of struggle to keep religion out of their twins' education

A Cavan mother struggles to find a non-religious primary school for her daughters due to distance and lack of options.
Agriculture
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Richly illustrated 'The Story of Us' provides a snapshot of a very different Ireland from Census 1926

A farmer named Hugh McElroy committed suicide in 1926, fearing arrest when a policeman visited his home.
Beer
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Luke O'Neill: With the number of redheads on the rise, are Irish people simply more evolved?

Natural selection is increasingly favoring redheads due to specific advantages.
#sibling-relationships
Relationships
fromBustle
3 days ago

Crickets In The Family Group Chat? You Might Be Dealing With "Sibling Drift"

Sibling drift is a gradual emotional distancing between siblings that can lead to a lack of connection and communication.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago
Parenting

My sisters and I had the same parents but were raised apart. It taught me there's more to siblings than meets the eye

Siblings share a family yet experience different childhoods due to birth order, family dynamics, parental evolution, and individual circumstances beyond simple personality theories.
Relationships
fromBustle
3 days ago

Crickets In The Family Group Chat? You Might Be Dealing With "Sibling Drift"

Sibling drift is a gradual emotional distancing between siblings that can lead to a lack of connection and communication.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My sisters and I had the same parents but were raised apart. It taught me there's more to siblings than meets the eye

Siblings share a family yet experience different childhoods due to birth order, family dynamics, parental evolution, and individual circumstances beyond simple personality theories.
Parenting
fromIndependent
4 days ago

New dads open up about feeling isolated: 'You are planning around nap and meal times so it's hard to stay connected with people'

The initial months of parenthood can be challenging for fathers, leading to feelings of isolation.
#family-dynamics
fromIndependent
6 days ago
Relationships

Ask Allison: My parents have always favoured my brothers over my sisters and I - and now they're cutting us out of their will

fromIndependent
1 month ago
Mental health

Ask Allison: I got short-changed in my mother's will because I was unable to care for her. How do I manage my resentment?

Relationships
fromIndependent
6 days ago

Ask Allison: My parents have always favoured my brothers over my sisters and I - and now they're cutting us out of their will

Favoritism towards brothers is damaging family relationships and affecting mental health of sisters.
Mental health
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Ask Allison: I got short-changed in my mother's will because I was unable to care for her. How do I manage my resentment?

Resentment and disappointment over a parent's will can be challenging, especially when mental health issues are involved.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Did My Mom Really Love One of Us More Than the Other?

The favored child dynamic shifted dramatically during adolescence, leading to feelings of rebellion and alienation.
fromIndependent
1 week ago

'It will be life-changing': Screening for two devastating genetic disorders in newborns to begin today

The heel prick test will now be accompanied by testing for spinal muscular atrophy (SMA), a rare muscle-wasting condition that can potentially lead to a child's death by the age of two.
Medicine
History
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Such a mix of people': Ireland of 1926 was not monocultural, release of census shows

The 1926 census reveals a more diverse and globalized early Ireland than previously perceived, challenging notions of a conservative, mono-ethnic society.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Modern Morals: My brother hasn't paid me back for my mum's funeral and it's brought up old feelings about him

As the eldest sibling, I did what I always do, which is jump in and become the fixer. I organised the funeral, paid for it and told my siblings they could pay me back once the dust had settled.
Fundraising
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 week ago

'It's perfect': meet the couples practising LAT - living apart together

Midlife and post-divorce dating is evolving, with many couples opting for separate living arrangements to maintain intimacy without traditional commitments.
Media industry
fromwww.independent.co.uk
3 weeks ago

Mystery surrounds paternity of child whose mother had sex with identical twins

Current DNA testing cannot determine the biological father between identical twins, leaving parental responsibility unresolved in a legal case.
LGBT
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why Identical Twins Can Have Different Sexual Orientations

Sexual orientation may have genetic links, but identical twins can have different orientations due to epigenetics and prenatal hormone exposure.
Law
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

Court of appeal says it cannot rule on which identical twin fathered a child

Paternity cannot be determined between identical twins due to DNA testing limitations, leaving parental responsibility unresolved for the child.
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

Share the load and the cost: Why more parents are having joint birthday parties for kids

Birthday parties are supposed to be fun, and they are, but they can also be hard work, not to mention very costly for parents.
Parenting
London music
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Ciaran Cannon on his daughter who was stillborn: 'She would be 23 now. I often wonder what she would look like? And how would her presence have changed the rest of us?'

Ciarán Cannon reflects on his political career and embraces his passion for music amidst a toxic public life.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Dear Mary: My mother's will left more to my brothers even though I was her main carer. I'm angry and upset and it's making me unwell

The will left 40% of the assets to both brothers and only 20% to me, despite my greater involvement in caregiving.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Bryan Dobson: 'I have a wonderful letter written by my father to his mother-in-law when my parents got married'

Bryan Dobson stated, 'After nearly four decades at RTÉ, I found retirement to be a new chapter, filled with family time and personal projects.'
Media industry
NYC parents
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

A View From Their Hospital Room Inspired These Twins' Distinctive Southern Names

A pregnant woman's water broke unexpectedly at 28 weeks while 100 miles from home in Tennessee, requiring hospitalization until delivery at 34 weeks, during which compassionate hospital staff provided exceptional emotional and medical support.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Does the Dominant Twin Really Exist?

Twin personality differences develop through parental attachment, parental perception, and continuous social comparison rather than genetics and environment alone.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Ask Allison: My husband won't talk about our IVF heartbreak and he drinks - and drives, most nights

Rapid engagement and marriage can sometimes mask underlying issues that may only surface later, especially when couples have not lived together prior to tying the knot.
Relationships
Parenting
Twins experience the loss of their co-twin in profoundly different yet universally traumatic ways, impacting their emotional and psychological well-being.
Cancer
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'I survived breast cancer but I lost three siblings to the disease'

A mammogram in 2015 detected breast cancer in Síle Nic Suibhne, whose family history included her sister's previous diagnosis, prompting her participation in BreastCheck screening.
SF parents
fromIrish Independent
1 month ago

Katelyn Cummins: 'I hate to be taking the spotlight from Mum on Mother's Day'

A 21-year-old apprentice electrician from Kilkenny is a Dancing With The Stars finalist dedicating her Mother's Day performance to her mother, who inspired her to pursue her dreams despite having a genetic hearing disability.
Women in technology
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Motherhood unfiltered: 'There was fear the entire time. It's probably the reason I don't think I'll have another child'

Mother's Day presents emotional complexity for many women, particularly those experiencing infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, or unfulfilled motherhood desires.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband's Sister Refuses to Carry Our Baby for a Selfish, Irrational Reason

Surrogacy is a personal choice, and individuals have the right to refuse for any reason, including emotional discomfort.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'I've lived in a flat all my married life, I raised my family there. They're all well-adjusted. We love it'

Fionnuala May has lived on Mountjoy Square in Dublin's north inner city for 43 years. That puts her out of step with most Irish people. As a nation, wedded to our cars, we've fallen out of the habit of living in towns, says the president of the Royal Institute of the Architects of Ireland (RIAI) and county architect for Fingal.
Renovation
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

Mom Has a Baby. 10 Months Later, She Has Twins. Meet Her 'Irish Triplets'

Lindsay Campbell gave birth to three babies within 12 months, making her the mother of 'Irish triplets,' after becoming pregnant just months after delivering her second child.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I raised my younger siblings more than I parented my own children because by the time I had kids I'd already used up something - a patience, a vigilance, a willingness to carry - that most new parents still have fresh. And nobody in my family has ever connected those two things. - Silicon Canals

Parentification—when children assume adult caregiving responsibilities prematurely—depletes emotional resources that affect their capacity for parenting their own children later in life.
fromIrish Independent
2 months ago

Risk of carrying the 'Celtic curse' gene varies across Ireland, new study finds

Targeting genetic screening for the condition to priority areas could help identify at-risk individuals earlier and avoid future health complications, experts say. Haemochromatosis symptoms can evolve over decades as high iron levels in the body cause damage to organs. Early diagnosis and treatment - such as regular blood donation to reduce iron levels - is key to prevent liver damage, liver cancer and arthritis.
Public health
US news
fromTODAY.com
2 months ago

EXCLUSIVE: The 'Raising Sextuplets' Kids Are Graduating High School: See Them Now

The Masche sextuplets are graduating high school and pursuing individual college and career paths while shedding their lifelong group identity.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Edaein O'Connell: Enough of the whispering - he's not my 73-year-old sugar daddy ... he's my actual dad

When the waiter sets the candle on the table between us, I know what's coming next. He gives us the look. I've grown used to it in just a few days here in Spain. It's a look edged with apprehension; there's always a flicker of uncertainty, followed by the decision to leap headfirst into an assumption.
Madrid food
Miscellaneous
fromIndependent
2 months ago

'Marriage and fertility today are in recession,' economist says at St Valentine's Shrine as he and fiancee prepare to wed

A growing share of Irish men marry after 40, contributing to declining marriage and fertility rates and delayed family formation.
fromIndependent
2 months ago

'I know how Brooklyn Beckham feels because I had to cut ties with my father and stepmother too'

The first rumblings of dissent began with a couple of 'no-shows' at various important family events. Next we saw Brooklyn, the eldest Beckham, unfollowing his famous parents on social media, then the bombshell Instagram post detailing in graphic detail why he wants nothing to do with dad David, mum Victoria or his siblings - and now, in the latest episode of the Beckham family feud saga, Brooklyn has apparently removed a tattoo dedicated to his father.
UK news
#parenting
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Mother-in-Law Thinks This Common Childhood Toy Will Cause My Son to Become Sterile

Stand up for your parenting choices and ignore unsolicited advice from family.
fromIndependent
2 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: I resent how my entitled daughters-in-law make a virtue out of being stay-at-home mums when my hard work is paying for their lives

Parents provided extensive education and support, yet daughters-in-law, though highly educated, choose to be stay-at-home mothers, causing parental puzzlement.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Mother-in-Law Thinks This Common Childhood Toy Will Cause My Son to Become Sterile

Stand up for your parenting choices and ignore unsolicited advice from family.
fromIndependent
2 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: I resent how my entitled daughters-in-law make a virtue out of being stay-at-home mums when my hard work is paying for their lives

Science
fromNature
1 month ago

Daily briefing: How DNA testing can tell identical twins apart

Advanced forensic techniques including whole-genome sequencing and epigenetic analysis can differentiate between identical twins in criminal investigations, while GLP-1 drugs show potential in reducing addiction across multiple substances, and researchers have successfully synthesized hexagonal diamond.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I clicked on a button and everything changed': how a DNA test turned my life upside-down

It was another detail that the rest of the family apparently knew but had never told me; they thought I already knew. The biology mattered less to me than the secret. Dad had been adopted, it turned out. A classic affliction of the 1950s, in which young, unmarried couples were forced to give away their newborn babies.
Books
fromIndependent
1 month ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I was planning on breaking up with him, and then I found out I was pregnant'

I was just finished college, I managed to get pregnant over the summer, by accident. I was still in my early twenties, it took me a few months to realise that I was pregnant.
Relationships
Real estate
fromIndependent
2 months ago

My favourite room: 'Trying to get pregnant can be scary but it doesn't need to be' - inside the family home of fertility nutritionist Amy Swan

Amy Swan overcame fertility fears, now has two children, launched a new career, and created a family home featuring Battersea Power Station artwork.
Cancer
fromIndependent
1 month ago

My parents moved into my one-bed apartment to help me through breast cancer treatment - and we actually had a great time

Caroline Kay's Instagram video thanking her parents for their cancer treatment support went viral with 2.6 million views, highlighting the profound impact of family caregiving during illness.
Education
fromIndependent
2 months ago

'I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel conflicted' - Irish parents on the true costs and savings of taking kids out of school for holidays

54% of Irish parents would remove children from school to save on holiday costs, prompting debate over acceptability and parental conflict between savings and schooling.
Agriculture
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'Our young daughter was left part of the family farm and relatives want their share now, but we can't afford to buy them out'

A family farm inheritance creates conflict among beneficiaries with differing priorities regarding selling or retaining the property.
fromNew York Post
1 month ago

Stunned upstate NY mom gives birth to massive, record-breaking baby: 'We didn't expect this'

We knew he'd be bigger, but we didn't expect this. He's already wearing 3 to 6 month diapers and clothes. It feels like I skipped straight to having a three-month-old.
US news
fromwww.independent.co.uk
2 months ago

One in 14 children who die in England has closely related parents, study finds

From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it's investigating the financials of Elon Musk's pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, 'The A Word', which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging. At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.
Public health
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Twin Studies and the Role of Genetics in Religious Belief

Parental upbringing shapes childhood religious participation, while genetic factors influence adult religious interest and involvement; identical twins can show strong similarity even when reared apart.
Medicine
fromNature
1 month ago

Identical twins on trial: can DNA testing tell them apart?

Identical twins share identical DNA, making standard forensic DNA testing unable to distinguish which twin committed a crime, though whole-genome sequencing can identify rare post-birth mutations to differentiate them.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Ask Allison: I'm recently married and I'm an average weight - but I keep getting asked publicly about my size and if I'm pregnant. Help!

Unsolicited comments about weight and pregnancy are inappropriate regardless of someone's body size, and people have the right to establish boundaries against such intrusive remarks.
Psychology
fromMail Online
2 months ago

Siblings or dating? Women fancy men who look like their BROTHERS

Women tend to prefer men who resemble their own facial features, while men tend to prefer facial dissimilarity.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Ask Allison: My dad and his sister fell out and she wanted her cancer kept secret from him. Now she's dead, do I tell him?

A deceased aunt's estranged siblings face decisions about honoring her privacy wishes while navigating complex family relationships after her death from brain cancer.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

My kids are growing up near their cousins. It's priceless.

Close family and nearby cousins create joyful, low-cost play opportunities like sleepovers and playdates, despite extra cleanup and occasional illnesses.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

People who grew apart from their siblings often share these 7 invisible childhood wounds - Silicon Canals

Childhood dynamics—competition for parental attention and rigid family roles—often create subtle, lasting wounds that drive emotional distance between adult siblings.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I Really Hoped for a Third Child. Now That It's Happening, I'm Faced With a Difficult Choice.

But now that I'm pregnant, I'm feeling kind of ... ambivalent about it. Not scared or panicked, just not particularly excited. It's still very early weeks, and we live in a Blue state, so my options are open. When I try to envision terminating the pregnancy (envisioning this is something my therapist encouraged me to do), I don't feel relief; I just feel more confused.
Parenting
Parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Tanya Sweeney: 'It's been 15 years since my mum died but the grief and unfairness of losing her has roared back to life'

Parents unconsciously transmit their own parents' phrases and parenting approaches to their children across generations.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

9 things Irish-American families did every Sunday in the 1970s and 80s that cost nothing and built the kind of loyalty that modern family life struggles to replicate - Silicon Canals

Regular shared family rituals and community gatherings create lasting bonds and accountability that modern scattered schedules struggle to replicate.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

15 Adults Reveal The Bizarre Family Traditions That Left Other People Completely Stunned

Letting our dogs lick the dishes before we put them in the dishwasher!
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