I came out as a lesbian, and then I came out as non-binary, and then I came out as trans. I identified as a lesbian for a very long time. There was no fluidity there, no interest in men.
"You know, when you guys be saying that, that's weird weird. Because what do you mean you don't date gay men? Because if he sleeping with you, and sleeping with a woman, he something."
"What could I do to feel better? I'd recently found out about prostate stimulation... I'd never tried it. I didn't have a penis on hand to help me out, so I went for the next best thing: a penis-shaped salad topping."
Young responded with humor to a fan's comment about her desirability, clarifying her sexual orientation with a simple yet impactful statement about her attraction to women.
On Reddit, when a user asked about the term, there were a number of different answers. One person said: "Stone top (usually used as a synonym for stone butch) means that the top doesn't want to receive physical attention during sex."
"There are both similarities and differences in the societal evaluation of male and female sexuality. However, contrary to common assumptions, moderate levels of sexual activity are most valued for both genders."